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punizioni

Come i bambini reagiscono VERAMENTE al controllo

Quando una persona cerca di controllarne un’altra, ci si può sempre aspettare qualche tipo di reazione da parte di quella controllata.
L’uso del potere coinvolge due persone in un particolare tipo di rapporto – una detiene il potere, e l’altra vi reagisce.

Questo fatto, apparentemente ovvio, spesso non viene preso in considerazione negli scritti dei sostenitori della disciplina. Invariabilmente, il bambino viene lasciato al di fuori della formula, omettendo qualunque riferimento al modo in cui il piccolo reagisce al controllo dei suoi genitori o insegnanti. E insistono: “I genitori devono porre dei limiti”, ma raramente dicono qualcosa su come i bambini rispondono alla negazione dei loro diritti.

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Scritto da: 

Thomas Gordon, Ph.D.

Traduzione: 
sole
Revisione: 
Chiara Pagliarini e Melidi7

Estratto da "Discipline That Works: Promoting Self-discipline in Children", New York: Plume/Penguin, 1989, (pp. 78-81).
Psicologo di fama mondiale, il Dott. Thomas Gordon, autore di Parent Effectiveness Training (P.E.T.) e fondatore della Gordon Training International di Solana Beach, California, morì il 26 agosto 2002 a 84 anni.

Per gentile concessione della Gordon Training International: gordontraining.com

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